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Time is Calling. Are You Listening?
By Suzanne
There comes a point in life, often quietly, sometimes all at once, when all of a sudden we become aware of time in a new way. No, not just the time on the clock, or the number on the calendar, but the untenable truth that our time is finite. Not in a morbid way, in a clarifying way. Almost like a soft whisper asking: "What will you do with your time left?"
Psychologists call this time perspective. The emotional and mental lens through which we view our past, present, and future.
This is how I like to look at it. How we feel about time is how we use it. And as women in the richest chapters of our lives we have choices. Will we drift? Or will we align our actions with what truly matters?
When you feel time differently, you live differently.
In our younger years, time felt endless, there was always a "later", a "someday", a "next year". But now there is an awareness and honesty that changes things. We become more intentional. More discerning. More of what feels worth our minutes, and what definitely does not. Time shifts from background noise to guiding force and I look at that as a gift.
Time is not chasing us, it is inviting us. It is inviting us to be aware of it.
So:
- Stop wasting energy on what drains you.
- Choose joy without apology.
- Use your voice openly, boldly, loudly.
- Prioritize health and movement.
- Create instead of consume.
- Savor instead of rush.
Be mindful with every tick of the clock. Ask yourself, "Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life?" When the answer is YES, you will feel it in your bones. When the answer is NO, time nudges you to adjust.
So what does it look like to live in alignment with time?
- Be honest about what matters now, not 10 years from now.
- Say yes only when your heart truly says yes.
- Let go of someday.
- Nurture only warm and reciprocal friendships.
- Invest in your health like your time depends on it, it does.
- Do one small thing daily that your future self will appreciate.
We REBELS 55+ know a truth the young do not know, YET.
Time becomes more meaningful as it becomes more limited. And this is not something to fear, it is actually something to honor. When we align our actions with time, we stop living on autopilot. We step into purpose, clarity and freedom.
I REPEAT: Time and the clock are not the enemy, they are the teacher. Time becomes more meaningful as it becomes more limited.
When we align our actions with time, we STOP living on autopilot. We step into purpose, clarity and freedom.
So I encourage you to live each day with intention, choose wisely, love deeply and always strive to be your best authentic self every minute of each day.
Hugs,
Suz
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